Frances Carr

Chair, Trustee

Early in 2021, I joined with 5 other mums (now Recover Our Kids) to lobby the House of Lords (UK) in support of Baroness Meyer.
A victim of coercive control and then an alienated mother 10 years later, I know the pain of divorce, the hardships of single parenting, the ordeal of the Family Court, and finally the hopelessness of losing a child in such a horrendous manner.
I am reunited with my daughter, so I also want to give parents hope not to give up and will speak out for those parents who cannot.
Teacher and House Builder

fc@bothparentsmatter.org.uk

Paul O'Callaghan — Paul OCallaghan
Trustee
1 February 1997/by W3bAdm1n

awaiting-trustee — Greg Cavadino
Treasurer, Trustee
1 February 2002/by W3bAdm1n

Will Davis
Trustee
31 January 2003/by W3bAdm1n

Wayne Martin
Trustee
31 January 2007/by W3bAdm1n

Mihir Parikh
Trustee
27 June 2024/by W3bAdm1n

Jackie Sanders | Trustee | Both Parents Matter — Jackie Sanders
Trustee
28 June 2024/by W3bAdm1n

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” What an amazing organisation, offering help, support and advice. A really informative and pioneering charity. Thank you! ”

DadNovember 2023

“ Excellent charity, and volunteers that gives hope and support with practical information, not only to fathers but grandparents / extended family too. A lifeline in devastating situations where ultimately the children are the focus. If contact with your child or grandchild is broken, this is the organization for all relevant information, support and understanding. ”

DadOctober 2023

” I don’t know how I would have coped without the Shared Parenting knowledge and empowerment from the peer support of Both Parents Matter.”

MumAugust 2023

” Both Parents Matter taught me about the realities of the UK Family Court system at a time when I was very vulnerable and in need of guidance. Their ‘Surviving Separation’ course is excellent. ”

DadSeptember 2023

” The only charity to support any parent or grandparent to regain contact with their child or children, I regularly attend the Manchester group once a month to provide support. ”

Dad September 2023

” Without this group I would have been lost. I am the grandmother of a son who had his children taken away by the mother and false allegations submitted to ensure no contact. It has been heart breaking but reading the stories, being part of a community and having access to meetings gives information, advice and the hope and knowledge that it can change. I will keep supporting my son and grandchildren so they are together in the future. ”

GrandmotherAugust 2023

” An inclusive organisation that supports mothers, fathers, and ultimately children. I have personally found their support to be invaluable and truly believe it has saved my life and helped me become a stronger, resilient, and positive human being, father, and husband. They have educated and coached with my own personal development, positive co-parenting, positive parenting, and Family Court and the legal/court process. In that order. The peer-to-peer support is unmatched…I’ve never experienced a more active and supportive group of individuals brought together by a single goal – Happy Families! ”